FORM 4 Check this box if no longer subject to Section 16. Form 4 or Form 5 obligations may continue. See Instruction 1(b).

UNITED STATES SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION Washington, D.C. 20549 STATEMENT OF CHANGES IN BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP OF SECURITIES Filed pursuant to Section 16(a) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, Section 17(a) of the Public Utility Holding Company Act of 1935 or Section 30(h) of the Investment Company Act of 1940

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1. Name and Address of Reporting Person * LYBARGER STANLEY A   2. Issuer Name and Ticker or Trading Symbol BOK FINANCIAL CORP ET AL [BOKF] 5. Relationship of Reporting Person(s) to Issuer (Check all applicable) __X__ Director _____ 10% Owner __X__ Officer (give title below) _____ Other (specify below) President & CEO (Last) (First) (Middle) C/O FREDERIC DORWART, 124 E FOURTH STREET 3. Date of Earliest Transaction (Month/Day/Year) 12/20/2012 (Street) TULSA, OK 74103 4. If Amendment, Date Original Filed(Month/Day/Year) 6. Individual or Joint/Group Filing(Check Applicable Line) _X_ Form filed by One Reporting Person ___ Form filed by More than One Reporting Person (City) (State) (Zip) Table I - Non-Derivative Securities Acquired, Disposed of, or Beneficially Owned

1.Title of Security (Instr. 3) 2. Transaction Date (Month/Day/Year) 2A. Deemed Execution Date, if any (Month/Day/Year) 3. Transaction Code (Instr. 8) 4. Securities Acquired (A) or Disposed of (D) (Instr. 3, 4 and 5) 5. Amount of Securities Beneficially Owned Following Reported Transaction(s) (Instr. 3 and 4) 6. Ownership Form: Direct (D) or Indirect (I) (Instr. 4) 7. Nature of Indirect Beneficial Ownership (Instr. 4) Code V Amount (A) or (D) Price Common Stock 12/20/2012   S   27,853 D $ 55.2257 (1) (2) 17,058 D   Common Stock 12/20/2012   S   13,000 D $ 55.0616 (1) (3) 1,730 I Marcia Lybarger Living Trust Common Stock 12/21/2012   S   1,612 D $ 55.1081 (1) (4) 15,446 D   Common Stock 12/21/2012   S   1,730 D $ 55.0728 (1) (5) 0 I Marcia Lybarger Living Trust

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Table II - Derivative Securities Acquired, Disposed of, or Beneficially Owned
(e.g., puts, calls, warrants, options, convertible securities)

1. Title of Derivative Security (Instr. 3)

2. Conversion or Exercise Price of Derivative Security

3. Transaction Date (Month/Day/Year)

3A. Deemed Execution Date, if any (Month/Day/Year)

4. Transaction Code (Instr. 8)

5. Number of Derivative Securities Acquired (A) or Disposed of (D) (Instr. 3, 4, and 5)

6. Date Exercisable and Expiration Date (Month/Day/Year)

7. Title and Amount of Underlying Securities (Instr. 3 and 4)

8. Price of Derivative Security (Instr. 5)

9. Number of Derivative Securities Beneficially Owned Following Reported Transaction(s) (Instr. 4)

10. Ownership Form of Derivative Security: Direct (D) or Indirect (I) (Instr. 4)

11. Nature of Indirect Beneficial Ownership (Instr. 4)

Code

V

(A)

(D)

Date Exercisable

Expiration Date

Title

Amount or Number of Shares

Phantom Stock

(8)

12/20/2012

A

40,853

(9)

(9)

Common Stock

40,853

$ 55.1735 (1) (6)

72,045

D

Phantom Stock

(8)

12/21/2012

A

3,342

(9)

(9)

Common Stock

3,342

$ 55.0898 (1) (7)

75,387

D

Reporting Owners

Reporting Owner Name / Address	Relationships
	Director	10% Owner	Officer	Other
LYBARGER STANLEY A C/O FREDERIC DORWART 124 E FOURTH STREET TULSA, OK 74103	X		President & CEO

Signatures

/s/ Frederic Dorwart, Power of Attorney		12/21/2012
**Signature of Reporting Person		Date

Explanation of Responses:

*	If the form is filed by more than one reporting person, see Instruction 4(b)(v).
**	Intentional misstatements or omissions of facts constitute Federal Criminal Violations. See 18 U.S.C. 1001 and 15 U.S.C. 78ff(a).
(1)	The reporting person undertakes to provide to BOK Financial Corporation, any security holder of BOK Financial Corporation, or the staff of the Securities and Exchange Commission, upon request, full information regarding the number of shares sold and acquired at each separate price within the ranges set forth in footnotes (2), (3), (4), (5), (6), and (7) to this Form 4.
(2)	The price reported in Column 4 is a weighted price. The shares were sold in multiple transactions at prices ranging from $55.00 to $55.59, inclusive.
(3)	The price reported in Column 4 is a weighted price. The shares were sold in multiple transactions at prices ranging from $55.00 to 55.21, inclusive.
(4)	The price reported in Column 4 is a weighted price. The shares were sold in multiple transactions at prices ranging from $55.10 to 55.14, inclusive.
(5)	The price reported in Column 4 is a weighted price. The shares were sold in multiple transactions at prices ranging from $55.05 to 55.12, inclusive.
(6)	The price reported in Column 4 is a weighted price. The shares were purchased in multiple transactions at prices ranging from $55.00 to $55.59, inclusive.
(7)	The price reported in Column 4 is a weighted price. The shares were purchased in multiple transactions at prices ranging from $55.05 to 55.14, inclusive.
(8)	Each share of Phantom Stock represents a right to receive one share of Common Stock, or at the Company's election, the cash value thereof.
(9)	The Phantom Stock becomes payable upon the reporting person's termination of employment with the company.
Remarks: This Form 4 details transactions pursuant to which Mr. Lybarger simultaneously (i) sold 44,195 shares of BOK Financial Corporation he beneficially owned, either directly or indirectly, into the open market in broker transactions and (ii) acquired 44,195 shares of phantom BOK Financial Corporation common stock in his deferred compensation plan.

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